This video shows how to take coconut milk .
Take 3 table spoons of coconut and add little warm water ( not hot water ) Grind it to a fine paste. Add some water & filter as shown now you get the first coconut milk,around 3/4 th cup ,if you want second coconut milk do the same process once again.
Another method to take coconut milk with out mixie,boil 1 small cup of water & put 3 table spoons of coconut & keep aside for 15 mts, squeeze the coconut & filter as shown,this is first coconut milk ,if you want second coconut milk do the same process again.
We are using boiling water to take the coconut milk,so you use this coconut milk only for your recipes.